What do you have to lose?

accomplished attachment desired result dreams enjoy the journey enjoy the process experience goals letting go must need new way Feb 09, 2022

The thing about goals that we have so wrong is that achieving them is the most important part.

So if attaining our goals is the most significant thing, why do so many people struggle to reach the top?

Now, from my experience in achieving massive dreams, the journey TO the dream was THE MOST IMPORTANT thing.

The unfolding of the path is so juicy, fun, exciting, disappointing, twisted, dramatic, incredible, alive, depressing, and extraordinary! And without these ebbs and flows, the cherry on top means nothing.

It's like the Jim Rohn saying, "Set a goal to become a millionaire for what it makes of you to achieve it. Do it for the skills you have to learn and the person you have to become."

That is exactly what I mean.

Yes, have the goals and the dreams. But don't make them THE THING you MUST have. This is where a lot of people get tripped up.

When they start NEEDING the end result to happen, then you know they're in emotional trouble.

This means they are too attached to the outcome, and the process is secondary. This is a sure-fire way to experience a ton of frustration, doubt, and insecurity. Which we both know that's not what they want.

You see, a person can have the dream AND let it go. That's the trick to achieving it. I know it sounds counterintuitive, yet that's how it's done.

Here's the secret (not really a secret) to letting it go... Enjoy the journey.

It's that simple. Yes, really.

If you're struggling and have this overwhelming NEED to achieve your dream, I highly recommend giving this other way a try.