You go first.

Today I had a conversation with a friend about accepting crumbs.

We both shared stories of being in crumby relationships (literally). Knowing we wanted more or deserved more within the relationship, but the other half was not willing.

And like most people, we do everything we can to communicate how they need to change. But, unfortunately, this approach creates a vicious cycle of wanting better and hoping they will do the transforming to make us happy.

Sorry, it doesn't work. And never will.

For things to truly shift in the direction of our desires requires us to take back our power. 

How?

It takes us getting clear that crumby relationships are NOT good enough and this ONE person is not the end-all-be-all of our happiness, love, and fulfillment. And once we accept that, then we can claim what we DO want.

This means we need to clear out all of the leftover crumbs to make space for the lovely meal waiting for us.

It took me a long time to understand I always had the power to change things without needing them to do the changing for me.

If you understand that part, then you got it.

You go first.

With lots of LOVE,
Teresa

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